The Struggles Of Being A Military Lady

By Moureen N

Proper grooming is a must if you want to serve in the military. If you want to succeed as a female soldier, you’ll need to conform to the military’s and society’s grooming norms. While it’s true that sexual assault and harassment are widespread in the armed forces, there are many other elements of being a woman in uniform that are often overlooked. What it really means is that there will be a lot of sexism, misunderstanding, and funny stories involving guys in uniform.

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Like their male counterparts, many women in the military have a closet full of t-shirts and sweatshirts with the insignia of their respective branches and units. When women wear them, people frequently assume their boyfriends are in the military and question them about them. It’s always amusing to see the expressions on people’s faces when you have to gently set them straight.

As a woman in the military, you may expect snide remarks and intrusive inquiries, although the latter might occasionally leave you at a loss for words.   Although the inquiries’ discriminatory origins are clear, many servicewomen still shrug them off and seize the opportunity to educate the questioner on the realities of their profession.

Every newcomer has the challenge of establishing oneself, but women may take up combat positions previously reserved for males for the first time in a century. Though it may be difficult, the women to show themselves as competent gunners will open the door for more women.

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Many women who choose to pursue a military career over raising their kids experience sexism and other forms of discrimination.

Women in the military face more significant pressure from civilians and their peers than women everywhere else because of the stigma associated with working outside the house rather than remaining at home with their spouses and children.

Despite the difficulties, it is satisfying to follow in the footsteps of the many courageous women who have served in the military, whether in the navy, the air force, or the ground force.